Watch time 7:15 minutes | In this film, Dr Bettina responds to a parent of a 12-year-old who is concerned that her child who is using an instant messaging App is feeling left out & it's impacting her mental health.
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Dr Bettina Hohnen is a Clinical Psychologist specialising in working with parents and families in the context of neurodiversity. She lectures and writes about children and young people's mental health. The focus of her work is on strengthening relationships between parents and young people, supporting her belief that if we work hard to get the environment right, all children will thrive.
Every month Dr Bettina addresses a new question from parents and carers in our audience about how to support their children's mental health. Please note that it won't be possible to respond to every question, but we will try.
Dr Bettina is unable to offer advice relating to your personal circumstances; specific questions should be referred to a qualified healthcare professional. This information should not be used to treat or diagnose your own or another person’s medical condition. You can find other sources of support on our website under Where to Get Help: https://nipinthebud.org/where-to-go-f...
00:00 - A parent's concern about her 12-year-old' emotional well-being
00:21 - A typical problem in a digital age
00:34 - 12-year-olds using instant messaging
00:59 - What age should my child have a phone?
01:19 - If your child does have a phone
01:39 - Phones, teenage brains & puberty
02:02 - FOMO - fear of missing out
02:10 - Tip 1 Manage your own reactions
02:38 - Give yourself a chance to support your child
02:50 - Tip 2 - Be curious about the situation
03:08 - Emotional statements
03:51 - Tip 3 Plan how to respond together
04:17 - Are you going in too strong?
04:34 - Does your kid want you involved?
04:50 - Roleplaying to support
05:08 - When to get involved
05:34 - Tip 4 Step in when there's a problem
06:11 - Tip 5 Be patient & be there to support
06:32 - You can't control the outcome
06:45 - Sitting with your child when they're struggling
07:05 - Got a question? Get in touch
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