Why Settle For Surviving? Break Free From Toxic Narcissism And Thrive!

Опубликовано: 15 Май 2025
на канале: Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Help for Toxic Relationships

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Healthy relationships have equality, reciprocity, and mutuality. Toxic relationships do not. You will be coping tooooo much, and in balance tooooo little. ... and that is unhealthy -- for YOU, both physically and mentally.

Does that sound familiar? You could be giving your life away to a narcissist with nothing but promises in return. Listen in to this episode and find out what's true for you.

HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
Why coping is an interim strategy, NOT a lifestyle
When you find yourself running to please someone else, you can lose yourself
Why it's important to see the narcissistic behavior clearly
Hijackals don't change except for a hot minute when they want something from you
Identify if you are exhausted from coping with a narcissist for years

To cope is defined as "to deal effectively with something" (Oxford) or to "deal with and attempt to overcome problems and difficulties." When you have to do that ALL the time because you're with a person, partner, or parent who demands it, it's exhausting. Sure, we can cope with emergencies. That's normal and healthy. BUT, COPING all the time? NOOOOOO! That's what it feels like when you're with a narcissistic Hijackal, right? Everything is an emergency that you have to deal with: their emergencies, needs, demands, or directives.

I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.
Rhoberta

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* Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.

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I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane.

No worries about where in the world you live. I work through private, secure video conferencing. So, we can certainly work together to figure a few things out.

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