SETTLING for CRUMBS Leads to EMOTIONAL MALNUTRITION

Опубликовано: 11 Июнь 2025
на канале: Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Help for Toxic Relationships
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Narcissistic people starve you in so many ways. Every now and again a narcissist--a Hijackal--is kind, offers a compliment, or shows interest in your feelings. THOSE ARE CRUMBS. You may be so starved that those crumbs feel like a feast.

You make a big deal of it, and think the world has reset in your favor. NO! The Hijackal wants something from you and knows how to get it. It's important to see this clearly.

HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
You find yourself starving for love, attention, acceptance, and validation
Why you get used to breadcrumbs
Why Hijackals will never engage in equality
Have you made yourself into a pretzel to try to please a HIjackal®?
Hijackals want you to be a doormat and then make you wrong for being one. Familiar?

Emotional malnutrition is real. Malnutrition is the state of you end up in when you live with constant deficiencies, excesses, and imbalances in your intake. You don't get enough of what is life-giving and healthy. You get too much of what is depriving, degrading, and discounting. AND, nothing is every in a healthy state of balance. NOT GOOD ENOUGH!

I'm here to help. Let's talk soon.

* Remember, narcissists and other toxic people come in all genders and ages * *
and toxic relationships can be at home, at work, at play... with your parent, boss, spouse, sibling, friend, co-worker.

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I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.
Are you in relationship with a Hijackal? That's someone who consistently puts you down, love-bombs and gaslights you, creates confusion and chaos, and causes you to second-guess yourself? I can help you recognize, understand, and make decisions about those kinds of narcissistic behavior…and especially, how to keep yourself (and your children) safe and sane.

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