How & Why A Narcissist Will Never Let You Feel Equal

Опубликовано: 20 Октябрь 2024
на канале: Dr. Rhoberta Shaler - Help for Toxic Relationships

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Feeling equal in a relationship is CRITICAL. And when you're with someone narcissistic or otherwise difficult and toxic - a Hijackal - it's likely there is NO equality.
If your relationship with a Hijackal (as a partner, ex or parent) often leaves you frustrated, disappointed, and infuriatied, this lack of equality is a probably culprit.

Do you ever have the lingering feeling that the person you have in mind right now is not interested in ever letting you feel good enough? Be right? Get what you want? That's because of underlying inequality in many cases.

Hijackals will NOT allow you to be equal in all the ways that count in a relationship. They reject it.
Tune in to learn how and why it happens... what is it about equality that folks with narcissistic leanings simply cannot cope with?
Knowing how this imbalance manifests gives you an opportunity to correct things for yourself. There's little point in expecting the Hijackal to do it, so let's get into it...

HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:
❓What equality looks like...AND, what it doesn't
❓Why Hijackals have no interest in equality
❓Why Hijackals of all stripes really think you're disposable
❓How inequality creates such stress and tension...and, you often think it's something else doing that.
❓How to see the inequality clearly and make good decisions about it

This is SO important to recognize and lean into. It can be the beginning of changing the games they play.

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