In this captivating episode of In Bed with Shenaz, our host Shenaz Treasurywala dives deep into the world of love, intimacy, and relationships with the brilliant and beautiful Kalki Koechlin. Known for her candidness and maturity, Kalki shares her personal relationship philosophies, starting with the rules of breakups and why she sticks to a strict code of never going back to an ex.
Kalki also opens up about her three non-negotiable requirements in any relationship and how she keeps the chemistry alive even during challenging times. She addresses thought-provoking questions like: Can a man feel threatened by a woman’s success? Would she ever date an actor? And, can one person truly provide emotional, mental, and physical stimulation in a relationship?
The conversation takes an intimate turn as Kalki reveals the best lessons she’s learned from her past relationships and gives three thank-yous and a heartfelt sorry to her exes. She doesn’t shy away from discussing her postpartum experience and how it affected her intimacy with her husband. Kalki emphasizes the importance of prioritizing each other in a relationship and honoring each other's interests.
Kalki also reflects on her marriage with ex-husband Anurag Kashyap, revealing how sharing the spotlight in a relationship can sometimes be a challenge. Ultimately, she reaffirms her belief in the power of monogamy. With a mix of laughter and deep insights, this episode is an unmissable conversation about love, connection, and growth.
Tune in for an honest and heartfelt discussion that will leave you with plenty to think about!
Location Courtesy: Hyatt Centric, Juhu
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00:00 - Introduction
1:42 - Kalki Koechlin on the rules of breakup
3:06 - Kalki Koechlin can’t live without these 3 things!
4:30 - Kalki Koechlin on hiw to keep the chemistry alive in a long term relationship?
5:53 - Kalki Koechlin on men being jealous of…
7:03 - Why did Kalki Koechlin & Anurag Kashyap separate?
9:04 - What’s the most important thing in a relationship for Kalki Koechlin?
10:06 - Lessons from past relationships that Kalki Koechlin learn
13:02 - 3 thank you’s and a sorry to Kalki's Ex boyfriends
14:56 - Kalki Koechhlin on postpartum intimacy
17:00 - Kalki Koechlin on dating multiple people