Thoughts Women Have When Receiving Oral Sex 🥹
While I often talk about how wonderful it is when a man is generous and skilful at cunnilingus, many women (including myself) often hesitate to receive oral pleasure even when a partner is eager to give it— most often because we internalise this idea that the vulva and vagina are gross and that our pleasure is too much of an inconvenience to matter. It isn’t!
I’ve certainly worried about things like whether I look, smell, and taste pleasant enough, and whether it’s too much trouble for him— even when he’s clearly super eager to do what he’s doing and says he’s really enjoying himself.
Men generally tend to internalise the idea that their pleasure matters and is not an inconvenience at all— but women tend to get the message that their role in bed is only to give pleasure, not receive it.
Both giving and receiving pleasure are wonderful arts worth cultivating, no matter your gender, and oral sex is just an example— pleasure can be so many different things for different people 💖 it’s pretty magical when both partners’ pleasure becomes an equal priority✨
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